Para raw sa mga nakakalimot, Ragga. Kamun!

1. Do not fall in love every time you fall in bed.(or vice versa) Learn to detach emotionally.
[true. mga limang kumikinang na bituin. chances are, if you cruise around, you're both playing games. so, don't expect to find tunay na pag-ibig. not every guy you bring home or who has taken you home can be a potential tunay na pag-ibig giver. iba ang lust sa love. and if he knows the rule of haha sheng sheng, and you don't --- talo ka.]

2. Sex does not equal commitment.
[tumpak. five shining shimmering stars. i can only say so much.]

3. Do not revolve your entire life around him/her. Addiction is bad for your health!
[limang bituing sumasabug-sabog. you can live separate lives.di mo kailangan sumama sa mga rehearsals, o kung anumang activities your partner has. tama na 'yung mga isa o dalawang beses lang. in the first place, hindi naman rugby ang partner mo to be addicted. compartmentalism, that's what you call it.]

4. Do not cling, act needy or demand. Doormats are for your feet, not your heart.
[makatotohanan. limang talang kumukuti-kutitap. huwag gawing pelikula ang relationship. hindi ka si ate vi or dina bonnevie para mamalimos ng pag-ibig o karinderyang bukas sa lahat ng gustong kumain, paano ka nakakasiguro na sa asawa ko ang batang 'yan at hindi sa iba? lumayas ka rito, hindi pwede ang batang yan sa bahay ko! sa bahay ampunan. duon. duon nababagay ang batang 'yan!]

5. It’s OK to say NO!
[mga bituing sumasayaw-sayaw ng limang beses. happiness, wag maging utu-uto. kung hindi ka pwede at mako-compromise ang iba mong activities, the word no won't hurt. i am fed up of pleasing other people. yoko na. i am tired of living up to their expectations. pwede naman sana akong maging tao sa harapan mo for once lang. hindi ako si dolphy to be of 24-hour service to you. kahit si dolphy nag-dadrama rin. tantanan mo ako. bitawan mo ako! bit-ta-wan mo a...ko! wakang-nga chumbawa chipinezly churlinz]

6. Stop talking so much. NEVER reveal everything.
[pwede bang sumobra sa limang pumipitlag-pitlag na stars? so true. hindi dapat sabihin lahat, especially if it's unsolicited or uncalled for. like, the hell i care about your ex who owns a boutique in cebu. cebuano s'ya kung ganun! may kambingan kami. may beerhouse. may palaisdaan. may vulcanizing shop. hmp. like, the hell i care about your suitors. like three suitors. pwes, masaya ako sa piling ng kapitbahay naming tubero. according to starla, kung ano lang ang nasa tasa, 'yun lang ang dapat mong higupin. other than that, don't sniff. charlapiznez, hindi kailangan i-kwento ang mga things not connected to me. malay ko ba. malay ba n'ya. don't go beyond the rules of telling stories, otherwise, it's not telling stories at all. it's bragging. it's attention-seeking stageplay. pathetic.]

7. Do not grill them or their friends for information.
[five na pa-tumbling tumbling stars. what you don't know won't hurt you. nga naman. hindi kailangan maging nbi agent in an instant. kung ano lang 'yung and'yan, live with it. mas masaya kapag nadidiscover kesa sa dini-discover.]

8. Master the art of LISTENING.
[limang bituing nagsa-somersault in full twist. listening, like sleeping is a luxury now adays. ikaw, ang ultimate form ng i am copernicus. lahat na lang sa'yo pakabeg. lahat na lang may say ka. lahat na lang may side comments ka. sinasamba kita. honestly, never akong nakinig sa kwento mo. that's mastering the art of listening. akala mo lang meron. pero wala. wala. wala. kung bibigyan mo ako ng exam para i-enumerate lahat ng mga sinabi mo, zero ako. hindi kasi ako nakikinig sa mga walang kabuluhan mong kwento. basura ka. alam mo ba ang ibig sabihin ng date at ng isang simpleng meet-up? lahat na lang ng lalaki sa mundo ni-date mo na. magtira ka naman. hindi porke't nag coffee kayo o nanuod ng sine, nagdate na kayo. ilusyonada ka, bakla ka. iba ang date sa isang simpleng hey can we watch a movie. iba ang date sa eyeball! basura ka. bumalik ka sa dagat na pinanggalingan mo! ]

9. Treat him/her as you would your best friend.
[teka, wrong number ata ito. sabi ko; don't compete with my best friends, hindi pa nagsisimula ang laban may panalo na, unfortunately hindi ikaw 'yun.]

10. Friendship creates long term love and comes before sex
[five exploding stars. it's the very foundation. hindi nahahanap ang tunay na pag-ibig sa kanto ng kamuning corner edsa. wala rin ang tunay na pag-ibig sa beach ng villa mar. at lalung-lalo na, hindi nabibili ang tunay na pag-ibig sa mall malapit sa escalators o sa likod ng building. ang tunay na pag-ibig ay hindi nakukuha at nakikita sa mga madidilim na lupalop.]

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1. Benson Says:
   June 24th, 2009 at 12:35 pm

   Panalo ka, Lee! kahit re-issue na. damang dama!